There needs to be about a 5 minute period between when i log on, and when my friends/guildies are told that i'm online. As it is, players are notified someone has came online the second the logging in player clicks to log in.
I don't know how others feel about this, but i absolutely HATE it that by the time i log in, i have 3 people already whispering me and 2-5 invites to dungeons pop up. If there was a 5 minute grace period when want to quietly craft with my ME or check the time left on the featured auctions or CE prices, i wouldn't have to snub friends/guildies or spend 5 minutes telling 10 people that 'no i'm not playing, sorry i don't have time to talk, etc etc etc'. It's very un-player-friendly. Therefore, i suggest the game giving me a few minutes online before it announces to the whole world that i'm open for whispers and invites.
Thanks guys.
You could just have an "appear offline" option. Just thinking.
~Sev