Disclaimer: Post might make me look like a hypocrite. (Which I kinda am :P)
I don't know why, but the majority of the reasons why parties with about anyone that is unsuccessful, is due to failure of communication.
This is just aimed to about anyone, am I complaining about my every guildy and friend of mine? No otherwise they wouldn't be my friends/guild list.
Usually you and your guildies or close friends can pull things off. For example, me and my two friends can get to the end of FSC(firestorm citadel) just fine along with one stranger (who usually is a friend).
But whenever I have a group of random people it just gets harder and everyone (including me) wants to be the "hero" they think about fighting, as a one step solution to taking down something, instead of taking perspective of the whole arena, etc, and Pre-action planning, implementing tactics, then taking down the enemy. Again planning isn't really needed on EVERY level, that would be ridiculous. (Make sure to strafe from the chromalisk, oh no! )
If you really know the place, say so ahead of time, so I can just shut up and watch, or I'll stay over cautious and enter wordy strategies.
I don't mind if you die a lot, really I don't, I can understand lag, and stupid mistakes, it is just a game, but be patient and don't smile a lot after dying it can get annoying in tough depths (again I won't kick you.)
If you don't listen, then I will kick you, esp. when you do something you agreed on solely doing, don't do something else... unless it will help out (like when I'm dead and all). This is usually when you do something that will get everyone killed...
When you join a party with people you don't know, who obviously have stronger gear than you do, aren't pessimistic, and say FSC instead of Vanaduke run (although might not always be the case...), it's good stay quiet.
I've kicked people only for the following reasons: disconnected before an arena would start(I give long time intervals), my impatience (in which I've paid 200cr back for doing so),or doing something that would get us all killed and waste the 10 ce spent on the level.
It is nice that you spend energy when you are dead, but it only makes it harder for the team later on if/when everyone is dead, and you really need to revive ASAP and cheaply(no hesitation that way).
If you are there to just have fun, than state it before you join a party, if you don't want to do the boss, say the something AHEAD of time...some people might need the cr or tokens and their hope will get destroy, or they might pay your tab.
Now, if you have good gear, charge it up and use it properly, if don't think you need to, there are noobs with good gear who worry about the lower gear people and then die right before the noob (me) does. If you have crappy gear, we might be able to manage and put you in a keystone position, please follow that role or set of roles(like I've said above about being the Hero). If you know the place either way, good we'll assume you'll do well but will reassure you anyways. If you are a gun user, sword, or bomb user, hear me out: I don't give a damn about pride, if it gets the job done, use whatever the hell you can. Now for those with good stuff like Shivermist and Toxic Atomizer (good for FSC and JK respectively) please try to stick with doing that, after the bomb is set, feel free to do whatever, but keep deploying the bomb afterwards, and solely in the JK depth. When we are all dead, the best thing to do it revive us. Do not feel used for doing so, you'll be the reason why we'll win. And maybe get a little compensation will be given ;P // Something we picked up and you want (We'll judge from there).
Update:
1) When anyone says "stay back" please do, for it will save a lot of time and energy (me and ce).
Please don't feel like I boss people, whatever I say are straight suggestions during the run, I don't mind feedback, and I'm not a stubborn person.
I don't like treating people like a tool, but I always have huge dependencies on other knights, and the reason why I don't have good armor and have invested in a lot of weapons. That's why I'm usually worth the rez (energy free of course, although there are always generous people).
LAST Important point, always, always, send a darn reply, I or anyone for that matter, do not disappear if you don't, I'll wait (until I feel stupid lol). It's kind of the point of this whole matter and the bottom line.
I've screwed up and haven't followed directions before too, but I"m slowly learning,changing. Just say the word, and I'll try my best with my bad memory to quit making mistakes, but accidents are always bound to happen.
Make sure to drop stuff before descending on the elevator :P (~Thanks Sonic~)
Thanks for reading,
Ninja
(Sorry that all the points aren't currently covered, and that the post is really vague and huge.)
In the end, its just a game, I was bored, thought of an issue, so I typed this up.
If you can't think of a reply, just say "Read". That way I know someone/how many people looked at it. Thank you again...
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