What if we havent played for a while and somebody sent us a really cool sword 30 days ago? It's gone. Your expensive property disappears. What if there's a Mist Tank in the message and we wanna save it for later?
Maybe there should be an option where you can turn it on or off or options for Inbox cleanup.
FYI, you can recive the mist tank without using it. It sits in your inventory under the "useable". Also, I'm pretty sure if the mail contains some item, you automaticaly accept it after 30 days. If not, it probabaly just overrides the delete system already, like you suggested.