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Heavy Plate Mail seems to have no real upsides anymore with Rock Jelly Mail bumping up so much? Normal defense is close to equal, and added to that Rock Jelly Mail has no negative attack speed modifier and it has a very, very high defense against Piercing damage? Sounds a bit to me like Heavy Plate Mail needs something more.
Towards defense overall, I still don't feel that my armor actually saves me from a lot of damage. I'm mainly using full Drake Scale equipment now (except for the Swiftstrike Buckler) which has quite a low defense rating. I swapped to Rock Jelly Armor and a Rock Jelly Shield now to see how the change feels. Quite the disappointment still in my opinion. The attack speed bonus keeps me alive much longer than the damage reduction Rock Jelly offers me. The shields don't feel like they have a major difference in damage-soaking capabilities either. Perhaps I'm slightly biased in that opinion though, since I don't often have the need to shield for a prolonged time while wielding the Drake Scale/Swiftstrike Buckler set, so I don't break that shield so often.
Any other opinions about armour?
You should try going in with your Spiral Brigandine and see the difference.
Overall I think armor makes very little difference. I changed my full Drake Scales to the full Heavy Demo gear. Those blue spiky blobs now do me 5ish damage instead of 7ish. Observed in the heat of battle, so bound to be inaccurate. And damage is probably variable anyway.
I never really noticed the difference in attack speed from the Drake Scales though, so I gladly got rid of them. And no, I've never used bombs. Heavy Demo just looked nicely overpowered and I needed that to compensate for my frustration over Heavy Plate.
The Heavy Plate shield is useless. It takes two hits from any type of monster to completely break it, no matter the damage type. The Rock Jelly shield, same number of stars, can take a lot more punishment. This isn't obvious at all from the stats, but in practise that's what I've seen time and again. Sadly better than using a shield, you could wield a Khorovod and hack yourself a way out of your troubles. I just don't like Khorovods. ;)