Seriously, why is this an option that has to be toggled on? And then resets each time you log off? What's the point of not letting everyone see eachother's gear automatically? If anything there should be a toggle to HIDE your gear, though I still can't imagine why someone would want it. And why only weapons/trinkets?
*boggles*
I suppose they made it opt in, which is a reasonable choice. But forcing someone to renew that choice every time they log on is a bit silly, and people have been reporting this bug for quite some time now.