1. OP, i have sad news for you: they arent going anywhere, and they aren't that hard. VBH is spot on with what he said. Either listen, or don't.
2. Regarding Batabii. He is many things, but ive never seen him be mean. I suspect he was removed for having strong opinions, and being blunt with his opinions. He is by no means my favorite person, but i believe him.
^ At ur #2, ur probably right. But he is a pretty inconsiderate person. And has an opinion on everything people say. Try dealing with that every day! At least, unlike Grave, he actually is capable of thinking. Only good thing about him really.
Who knows, he might have changed since he got kicked out of my guild. (And batabii, do not try to lie about getting kicked for complaints. You did, and I can easily get proff. Cant rat your way out this time ;)
idk if that's how you interpreted it, but I meant to say "as far FROM all-around as you can get"
Also orbs are NOT "easy to get". It's pretty much as rare a drop as you can get besides actual equipment drops. More rare than Sparks of Life.