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[UPDATED w/ Screenshots] The average player-maturity level is beginning to depress me

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Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:08
#51
Senshi's picture
Senshi
Yes, I can read.

Energy is energy. Mist is still value. Not quite as flexible as CE, but it isn't worthless either. In fact, you cannot both do a full tier run and tab someone else on mist alone (missions make this a little different but not much.) I'm saying asking for -energy- gratis is begging, not asking for Crystal Energy specifically.

And there have been since the first week people who spin such stories and never spend their own energy for runs. Crafting items for sale on 'free' mist turns that mist into crowns very nicely, always has. The auction house makes that easier but not quite as profitable. Which is fine... if your 'free' mist is a day you're not playing anyway or an alt-account when you have a paid account. It's not so fine when you craft and auction items first and then go getting other people to tab you onto your runs.

Simply put, there's no way to tell the difference between a naive cheapskate who's simply struggling for his/her next upgrade and someone systematically scamming with the exact same story. Anyway, I don't have any inclination to tab either one, I'd rather like to advise the former to be a little less selfish and to kicik-ignore the latter... but I can't tell them apart so I'll assume the former until proven otherwise, while the party leader you're objecting to assumed the latter. I can sympathize with that too, it does get tiresome.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:19
#52
Laraso's picture
Laraso
@Forum-Brady, Psychodestroyer, Senshi

I guess I just have a different perspective on mist energy than most people. I look at it this way:

He needs his CE to craft something.
I have ME.
He wants someone with ME to tab him.

CE = Permanent, volatile energy
ME = Limited, regenerative energy

It costs 10 energy to travel down an elevator. If I tab him, I'll lose ten mist, but I'll regain it all in about three hours. I don't really have much to lose by helping him.

I have an elevator pass, so I wouldn't end up using the mist anyways. It'd be better for him to use my mist than for me to not use it at all.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:19
#53
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Psychodestroyer

"CE = Permanent, volatile energy
ME = Limited, regenerative energy"

That's the way I look at it as well.

Although I look at regen time as roughly 2 hours.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:32
#54
Forum-Brady's picture
Forum-Brady
There are other ways to look

There are other ways to look at it. For example, if he needed energy to craft so badly, he should have let his ME regenerate instead of begging. Why is his energy more important than yours?

You could use your own ME for crafting, tabs, purchases, elevators and in three hours have it regenerate later for further use.

Why should you freely give away your ME to someone who isn't willing to wait for their own ME to regen? He's implying that his is more urgent, valuable and important than yours by begging for it. If he was giving real respect towards you and your currency, he would have offered to pay, or at least give you an appropriate amount of cr in exchange for it.

Sometimes the trickiest beggars are the polite ones. Let's not forget that a con man cons people, but a great con man cons people without them ever knowing they've been conned. Don't assume it's innocent just because he's polite. Putting kind words aside, the raw facts are that he's begging and showing little to no respect for you or your currency.

Note: I'm not opposing sharing or being kind to people. I have tabbed strangers and guildies alike, as well as given away free stuff, I very much encourage sharing in the community. However, there are limits to this and I feel that appreciation of gifts (see the many threads I've posted in about the free fashion weapons from OOO) is important too. Showing respect where it's due counts for a lot, and kind words alone count for only so much. In this instance, I wouldn't object to you giving him energy by giving him the benefit of the doubt and presuming he's not scamming. I'm just being devils advocate and giving you alternate points of view on the matter, namely that you shouldn't ignore the value of your own currency under that of others'.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:52
#55
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Toksyuryel
I can't get through more than

I can't get through more than a couple sentences of Forum-Brady's posts without wanting to bang my head against the wall. Does anyone else have this problem?

EDIT: Senshi's too.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:38
#56
Psychodestroyer's picture
Psychodestroyer

If you're referring to 'wall of text', no. I've seen a lot worse.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:50
#57
Forum-Brady's picture
Forum-Brady
I try to keep my local

I try to keep my local accenting to a minimum on forums, and personally don't much like paragraphless wall of texts in preference of "neat" posts, whether they're lengthy or not. Although I am aware I tend to blether on a wee bit.

Unless you mean my personality/attitude, in which case I cannae really comment on that with any objectivity~

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:51
#58
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Toksyuryel
No, I am referring to the

No, I am referring to the actual content of the post. It's not a wall of text. A wall of text is what happens when someone doesn't understand what a paragraph is (and frequently also involves bad spelling and grammar, especially run-on sentences). I really hate it when people refer to a long, or even a medium length post as a "wall of text".

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 00:57
#59
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Forum-Brady
I blether on regularly, so

I blether on regularly, so have often been accused of wall of texting. I don't agree with the word choice, but it's the easiest go-to answer when people have a complaint about my posts regarding said blethering.

Eitherhoo; couldn't comment on that either, as my posts are either based highly on logic/fact, (which I feel is something that can't be argued, although often disliked) or based heavily on opinion (which, as above, I can't comment on objectively).

Oh well, not much I can do if I passively annoy you~

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 01:05
#60
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Psychodestroyer

"I really hate it when people refer to a long, or even a medium length post as a "wall of text"."

Just in case, I wasn't referring to it as a wall of text, just the possibility that someone else (in this case you) might've.

I have my fair share of shoutouts, although 'wall' is hardly the way to describe it.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 02:02
#61
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Xxpapaya
The papaya simply comments *wink*

*Reads the first few posts*
Well, I kind of agree with your assumption that the Spiral Community is growing more and more....................you know. Fine, I'm not exactly what you can call "mature" (since I just turned 14) but hey, age doesn't always matter. You can be the youngest person in the game but be the most mature....... I've never been kicked by party leaders due to the reasons you listed, but...................Ok, yesterday I joined a party and the leader was a guy named "Drinks" I think. I said "herro" to him just as a friendly greeting, he then asked me if I meant "hello", I said yes. Later on when another guy arrived i said "yello" as another friendly greeting. After typing in "...", Drinks kicked me. Now, I know he might've kicked me because his friends wanted to join or something, but still.
1. If you friends want to join and you don't want other people in the party, lock it. Amazing strategy isn't it? It took me a few weeks to figure that one out
2. How the papaya is saying "herro" and "yello" an excuse to kick someone?
Honestly, I don't know what made him kick me. Was my Sniped Hat annoying him? Does he hate people with a WRH? Does he not like papayas?

Ok, enough of that
"And how could I forget all the people who like to send friend and trade requests to every single last person that is unfortunate enough to pass by."
I actually like people sending friend requests to me =)

"Hey, does anyone here have mist to spare that wouldn't mind tabbing me?"
"I want to save my CE because I'm going to craft something"
The two sides of this argument about weather the guy (or girl) deserved to be kicked are quite "equal". Personally, I HATE wasting my crystal energy on elevators and revives. When I started playing, I would throw at least 400CE into every run I was in, just for revives (lesson learned). And yeah, people want to be able to play as well, AND get that shiny new sword (or gun, or piece of armor, etc).

Then again, he/she should have the patience to wait a bit. Other people need their energy as well!
Still, I think the party leader shouldn't have kicked him/her when he/she only asked once. If they continue ranting on about it then yes, he/she should be told to stop or be kicked...........

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 02:39
#62
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Kickthebucket
haha you forgot the guild

haha you forgot the guild spam xD (i run guildless for the moment) i swear 5 people send me a guild invite (diffrent guilds) while i was selling some stuff on the AH... (realy... 5 invites in what? 10 minuits?)

yeah i also dislike beggers... i have only found 2 good people who asked for something (didn't realy beg for it) 1 asked if the could borrow 100 CE to craft (he had a 100 misttank in his inventory but was short the ce) and after that he tabbed me through FSC with the misttank (wasn't realy nessesary but still nice of him) and when we reached the core he bought 100CE and gave them back :D the other one was kind of simular.

so yeah my ignore list is growing ever so big xD

only thing i can offers as and advice, create a noob loadout (1-2* items and even trow in a bad weapon haha) to walk around haven with and when running the clockworks the the opposite and bring out the best gear you have and then put on a good costume :D i swear the haven thing works haha (having volcanic valk wings and a halo realy works as a begger magnet)

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 08:44
#63
Laraso's picture
Laraso
@Forum-Brady

I'd have to disagree with you on this.

Although I can be the biggest cynic you've ever seen on rare occasions, I'm not one to go around expecting the worst out of people. Rather than assuming that player was trying to trick me into getting a free elevator ride using my energy, I took what he said at face-value and believed that he needed to save his crystal energy to craft something.

I know first hand how it feels to try and save crystal energy, but at the same time needing to spend crystal energy. It's quite frustrating and can make me feel like I'm not getting anywhere at times. I sympathized with that situation, and would have gladly tabbed him without giving it a second thought.

Now, you think that was a bad idea, because I might have been conned. I wouldn't mind that in the least.
"But why, Laraso? Everyone hates liars and thieves!"

The answer is simple; ignorance. I'm not losing anything by helping him, and therefore it would make little difference if I was helping or getting conned. As long as I can believe that I am helping someone, even if I'm getting conned, then everyone wins as long as I never find out. The very real chance that he is telling the truth is more than enough of a reason for me to help out. Even if I did find out later that he tricked me, I wouldn't really care, seeing as I didn't lose anything.

I'd rather help him and take the chance of getting tricked than not help him and create hostile tension between me and him by assuming he's begging/conning.

As for the "value" of mist energy and how important you say it is for him to pay me back, I disagree. To best sum up how I feel about it, I'll use a (very bad) analogy.

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Let's say someone needs to use a battery, but they don't have one. They ask around if someone has a battery that they could borrow, and I tell them that they can borrow my rechargeable battery. So, the person uses the battery, and then returns to me a bit later and tells me that the battery ran out of juice and they will pay me back as soon as possible.

Now, I could just put that battery into a charger and wait a little while and it will be as good as new, so that person does not need to repay me. It would be silly if they did.

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And that sums up just about everything I have to say on that issue.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 09:50
#64
Dmatter's picture
Dmatter
oh! i just thought of

oh! i just thought of something. if you are being begged by a proto set that is NOT a costume, he doesn't need/deserve it. because 1: if it has no accessorizes, then they are a very old player and are trying to trick you. 2: any starting man should have a cyclops helm at least (that is the only starter gear i remember). oh and if someone asks you for ce MORE than 20 than say that giving them that whould ruin the game feel.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 11:00
#65
Ailment's picture
Ailment
Hmm

I can agree with the OP on how he felt justified to help the person who wanted to conserve his CE. I look at ME the same way, especially because of my elevator pass. Someone there without a pass, has the means and willpower to work for their money, but wants to speed it up a little. He politely asks for if anyone has any spare mist that he could use for the time being, simple as that. For me, sometimes I don't even use my ME for the day, so I personally would be happy to help someone in that situation.

Its sort of like needing heat, sometimes you just want to speed up the process, so you see if others need their heat. It can be the different between getting that 5* items fully leveled up in a run or only partially, depending on the condition of the other players and how willing they are to help.

While I myself am a very endgame player (proud owner of most of the 5* swords/guns currently in game), I don't feel the obligation of showing off my gear upon others or somehow implying that I am better than they are (which, could be the truth, but I don't let it get to me). If the fact that I am a better play does come out, how do I use this knowledge? I help others out, I help them reach their goals, since most of mine have already been reached.

Yeah, the community in general has kinda declined, I get all the above every now and then, random friend requests, trades, and sometimes guild invites (despite being in the guild I am in). Now I'm not anti-social, I just prefer to know the people who I friend, or know what people are trading me (or want), and...perhaps....why someone wants me to move away from my guild and into theirs.

I can sympathize, and if you want another friend to add on, feel free to include me in the list. In game name is the same as my forum name: Ailment, and while I will probably remember your name from the forums, probably would be best to include a message as others have said. I focus a lot on T3 and lockdown, and while I can solo Vanaduke easily, I prefer playing with others, just so that my playing experience is always different.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 11:40
#66
Kraken's picture
Kraken
Forum Buddies.

I have found a fair share of griefers, but I haven't been in-game much lately, have been very busy IRL. Its also a crap shoot whenever you do a public run and moreso if they freak out and try to be a control freak party leader. I had an experience where I could like the guy as long as I wasn't doing a run with him; he was a dungeon-rager (like a road-rager). Also problematic when your friends have moved on to T3 and you hang in the T2 category indefinitely. That said I have also met some really nice people in-game.

I'll have to agree that in the forums you can at least preview peoples' personalities. Some good folks are frequent forum posters. There are probably some good folks in-game are not on the forums.

1. Make friends on the forum.
2. Pray they are online when you are.
3. ???
4. Profit.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 11:46
#67
Diamondshreddie's picture
Diamondshreddie
Sad, but true

To give my most honest criticism, a few of the assumptions you have made are just a bit exaggerated, but for the most part I agree.

Some players do fall between "bad" and "good", but you are certainly correct for saying there are a number of players falling suit to the "bad" category. Though I have seldom been kicked, I can relate to being opposed when only trying to be considerate.

I would never openly label someone as "bad", but I cannot help but admit that some people are just so blinded by their own arrogance and ignorance, that it's unbearable!

I'm glad I read this thread. You seem like an intelligent and respectable person, I just hope that many may learn from this and take the time to see themself from the standpoint of others.

Feel free to add me, granted if I havent already
Bomber Diamondshreddie, at your humble service ~

*salute*

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 12:10
#68
Happy-Meal-Tasty's picture
Happy-Meal-Tasty
well...

Picture related.

Does not intend to insult anyone really. Even if it does, it's still true.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 14:38
#69
Forum-Brady's picture
Forum-Brady
@Laraso:Hey, I never said to

@Laraso:
Hey, I never said to not help him; I probably would have as well in your situation. I'm just saying that, based entirely on your forum posts, you're clearly not considering everything.

To break your analogy:

Someone needs a battery. They're asking around for one. You offer them your rechargeable battery at your expense, while you could be using it.
But they have their own rechargeable battery and are just not willing to let it recharge.

The key factor here is not that he needs "energy", as he apparently has enough CE, it's that he needs "mist energy" for his craft. He can craft it if he simply waits. But he's asking someone else to cover that loss for him at their expense, while at no loss to him.
In that particular situation, whether you see it as no loss or not, I see absolutely no reason why he can't just take a time out for a few hours and let his own mist regen for the craft, rather than begging strangers for theirs.
Or, as I've said, why he didn't offer to give you his cr payout for the run in exchange. Mist or not, it doesn't change the fact that he's taking your energy purely because he's too impatient to wait for his own to regen.

It would only have been respectful to offer you something in return. If he was dead out of energy on all fronts and just wanted to play the game, I'd understand/sympathise more, but the boy had energy. He could have paid himself but simply chose begging instead.

To, hopefully, make my point clearer:

If you'd have freely given him your mist energy, he would have done the run and acquired the 9k cr from FSC. He would then, likely, have used that cr to buy more energy.
This is him getting 50ME+100CE (+heat) essentially for free, at your expense. Even if you get that ME back, he had other options but chose to trade your currency for more for him, without offering you any reimbursement for your currency.

Intentional or not, that's pretty heavily taking advantage of your generosity.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 15:05
#70
Aureate's picture
Aureate
Processing Thoughts of You Always

...It's understandable to tab someone if you've got an elevator pass and mist energy to spare. But in general, not everyone has a regular elevator pass, and asking a stranger to pay for you right from the start is considered to be extremely poor manners, since you're essentially asking for someone to pay for the sake of your profit, with no real recompense for doing so.

Would it really be so bad for someone to craft his gear and then wait a day?

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 15:15
#71
Alpha's picture
Alpha
I don't think that asking for

I don't think that asking for 10 CE is grounds for harassment. I don't care if it's begging, it still doesn't justify harassment. If that guy didn't want to give him 10 CE he should have just said ''no'' and rolled with it.

So he not only kept his CE but to top it off he was a complete and total jerkwad and somehow this is appreciated in our community?

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 16:00
#72
Laraso's picture
Laraso
@Alpha, Forum-Brady

@Alpha

He wasn't even asking for 10 CE, he was asking for 10 ME.

@Forum-Brady

Please stop trying to make him sound like some sort of shady "con-man".

Your "analogy breaker" doesn't make too much sense, so let me clarify my original analogy:

I have a rechargeable battery. He has a rechargeable battery, too, but his is empty and it will be a while until it finishes recharging. I lend him my battery for a while, since I wasn't using it for anything, and then after he's done, he returns it.

Since delving any further into analogies would be a silly waste of time, I'll just say this: I don't care if he was trying to trick me, I don't care if he had CE to spend, I wouldn't even care if he had a full tank of mist energy. Mist energy isn't worth as much as you're making it seem. Mist energy is expendable.

There's a difference between reasonable suspicion and cynicism. There's a difference between a beggar and a favor. There's a difference between a good party leader and a bad party leader, and you'd better bet there's a difference between crystal energy and mist energy.

If he's "taking advantage" of me, then so be it. I'd be happy to let him "take advantage" of my mist energy any time. Sure, it's not good being a floormat for other people, but for something as simple as lending 10 mist energy to someone, there's no reason to be so cynical.

Once you act like a cynic towards the guy who's asking for 10 mist energy, it'll quickly lead to being cynical towards the guy who asks for 25 crowns to send a letter. I'd know, as I used to be a huge cynic, and it's a state of mind that I no longer wish to have. Cynicism like that plays a part in why the community is so bad in the first place.

That being said, the moment I'm no longer able to place a basic amount of trust in people will be the moment I quit Spiral Knights.

Mon, 11/19/2012 - 16:40
#73
Redblades's picture
Redblades
They should really enforce the age requirement

I'm barely over the limit, but yet I have to complain that most players I meet cannot even spell a simple word properly.
All I see in lockdown is "NOOB" "AA" "AT" "SPAMMER" "COMBO SPAMMER" "GO DIE NOOB" and the occasional smart-arse that calls me "redblAAdes".
I also have to add that all the things I listed above seem like they're being typed by a 7 year old.
All I see in pve runs is "tab me" "so slow" "noob" and random kicking.
*RAGE*
This is why I always keep the friends I added when I first joined on my list. ^.^
Long live mature people.

Wed, 11/21/2012 - 15:03
#74
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Hero-Of-Cheese
The reason why people are

The reason why people are like this is because they are impatient.Beggars want the stuff now,not later.That and they don't want to work for the gear themselves.I imagine irl, they are still given everything to them.So, they apply this logic to this game and any other game they choose to play.I have a "friends"list that is mostly made out of random players sending an invite to me out of nowhere.I haven't been experiencing the kind of behavior some of you guys have been like the name calling and the unjust kicks from a random party I join.But then again, I have been tier 2 for the longest.

The random trade request, I have had, and it's just no cool.There was this guy that had beginner gear, and he was sending trade request and saying "ROBBERY!!!" Even though he got shut down, he still kept doing it.Also, today there was the guy who wanted to sell TF2 weapons for cr.No one said anything as usual.He then said "Does anyone play TF2?" one guy said yes.The seller then proceeded to the guy who played TF2 and asked if he want to buy the weapons he was selling.The guy said " nah I'm good thx" The seller then replied with "FU" I then said to him, "that was uncalled for" he didn't like that I said that, and insulted me.I then told him" he didn't want to buy your weapons, is that so bad?" He said yes.I did /sigh and went off to my own affairs.That really pissed me off.

Sorry for the rant, I thought it had to be said.Sometimes, I hate the community of this game, but we have to push on onward.

Wed, 11/21/2012 - 16:44
#75
Forum-Brady's picture
Forum-Brady
Please stop trying to make

Please stop trying to make him sound like some sort of shady "con-man".

You're clearly missing my point. I did say (several times, in fact) that I don't oppose helping and that I would too in your position, and that giving him the benefit of the doubt isn't a bad thing.

What I'm saying is that it's incredibly bad ethic to walk into a group of randoms who you've never met and ask for energy to pay your run, that you will profit from, without offering any compensation for whomever is paying.
It is especially bad ethic when this person admits that they can pay themselves but that they just don't want to, which is essentially what he said. He would rather beg strangers to pay his tab than wait a day for his mist to fill so he can craft on his own.

Whether he's conning you or not is irrelevant; his manners and attitude are pretty shocking, and being polite in asking does nothing to change that.

Mist energy isn't worth as much as you're making it seem

Also, that's just plain wrong. Mist energy is worth exactly as much as crystal energy. CE fees don't change if you use mist. Elevators don't cost more or less if you use mist. Just because it returns over time does not change it's inherent value or usefulness.
To give a perfect example; that player is using your mist to collect him a 7k profit when he could use his own CE instead to gain the exact same amount. He could also wait and let his mist regen and gain the same profit. Mist is still energy; it just can't be sold. Somethings value should not be dismissed because it's bound to you, just the same as armour that's locked in your inventory is not worth less than it would be if it was not bound.

Now, I'm not saying he's "taking advantage" of that fact, but people often don't appreciate that fact. He is asking you for energy, which equates to time and, as we all know, time is money.

Wed, 11/21/2012 - 16:58
#76
Irokwe's picture
Irokwe
It's not only here :/

I haven't played SK in a really long time, as I've been on some other forums, annd had some other stuff going on. I've just started playing again about 3 days ago, and haven't seen it this bad yet. But on the forums i was on, the people were so [unsmart] you could almost start crying. So, i feel for you, but i think the community here is one of the best internet communities around. Feel free to add me as a friend (kign : irokwe) so we can do some runs together.

Offtopic: wow, first forum post here in about a year o.O

Wed, 11/21/2012 - 17:38
#77
Zyhro's picture
Zyhro
So true....

Oh god, this is all true, I've even had to resort to putting on the stuff I'm heating just to get people to stop asking, and I just ignore the ones who can't spell correctly.
Feel free to add me if you want.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 10:23
#78
Laraso's picture
Laraso
@Forum-Brady

I apologize, I thought your post was implying that he was making up excuses just to get free elevator rides from people. While I agree that it is poor etiquette to request a tab from someone before a mission starts when you clearly have the energy to pay for it, I must also empathize. There is a fair chance that he did not know it was rude to request to be tabbed like that, and he was asking because he wanted to craft an item and didn't want to spend the crystal energy he has to go down an elevator.

I still have to disagree with you about mist energy, though. The fact that mist energy is an infinitely regenerative resource makes its importance wane in the face of crystal energy. 10 ME can do all of the same jobs that 10 CE can, but the difference is that 10 ME will regenerate in 1 - 2 hours, while the 10 CE is lost forever.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 12:31
#79
Pythonal
Nearly the same experience.

Beggars trying to look nice by "Only asking for 500 cr", Guy who came into my party and immediately asked to be tabbed, (seriously, how the [PAPAYA] does that even make sense? You had enough energy to get down here, but not enough to continue on? Needless to say, I kicked him.) Guys who want my crystal energy, (I barely have 500, why should I give away my hard-earned work?) and the occasional 8-year-old misspelling half the words they type up, raging at every little thing, including how they were kill while typing. (He though someone hacked his game and made him die, he was stupid enough to thing typing made you invincible. I tried to reason, but it was like he was the only person.)

I'm just saying that I've got the same end of the stick as you guys.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 13:01
#80
Feline-Grenadier's picture
Feline-Grenadier
Anyhow...

Dude, if you get hate-mail like that, report the jerk. (If it isn't possible to do it through emails [like you have to be next to them] then I'll put it in the suggestions)

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 13:32
#81
Uplus-Echd's picture
Uplus-Echd
Just to let you know, I was part of the Steam influx.

I have dealt with a few elitists a while back on my old character, interestingly enough, they were all fur-coats. I was only tier 2 at the time, yet those no-knickers still kicked me for using an unorthodox weapon combination (Charge/Catalyser/Pulsar/Fiery).

I eventually stopped random partying to avoid those people and have been doing it since, even for other MMOs I play. Even then, I still partied with my brother and his friends, but only on some occasions since they are a tier higher than I.

However, I did have a strange encounter on an elevator to Roarmulus. There were two fur-coats, who instead of kicking me, they waited for me to leave the party. I was patient and ultimately never did, and they just left. I don't know whether to interpret this as polite or rude as they could of just kicked me or created another party.

...The immaturity is a rather strange phenomenon, as it seems the more populated a game is, the less mature the community becomes. Puzzle Pirates, Three Ring's older game, have now been reduced to a rather small community since its peak in 2006, and it is nearly devoid of all immature players. I guess it has to do with the market, casualty of games attract the younger as they are "easier" while the more difficult keeps them out for not allowing them to advance. Or perhaps it is community, as a game ages it will lose its community and only the mature continues to occupy it because they genuinely love it.

I say, it is a combination of both, since examples like Puzzle Pirates and Team Fortress Classic retains a small mature community, are old, and are rather difficult to master.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 13:31
#82
Nechrome's picture
Nechrome

Yup, the player-base's maturity is really beginning to degenerate.

As one of the veteran players (joined very shortly after the Snarbolax was released, which was like late May or earlier June of 2011), there's a a significant difference between the old player-base and the current one. Everything to prove my point has already been said in this thread; an excess of beggars, kickings, flaming, and all the rest of that junk.

Anyway, feel free to add me on your friend list. I always find it best to make your friends on the forums. :3 On the forums, you can judge their character and the whatnot by the content of their posts.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 13:38
#83
Garagara's picture
Garagara
The immaturity has gotten so

The immaturity has gotten so bad, for me at least, that I've resorted to only playing with a specific group of friends. Our sessions are also very well planned out, as we rarely go to the haven to avoid the usual 3-5 guild invites per 30 minutes, not to mention the countless random friend requests. We used to allow anyone to join the party but when people showed up and started begging for the crowns we earned in arena two floors back (before they were there) or blatantly criticizing our equipment or play-style, we decided it would be best to keep it invite only.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 13:44
#84
Skyber's picture
Skyber
Feel free to add me if you

Feel free to add me if you want. I am a respectful person and very active.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 15:26
#85
Megatech's picture
Megatech
Dear please >_>

I'm playing a game dear, why I need to be good? Urgh...this was supposed to have fun and not an ''example'' for the game community.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 15:35
#86
Megatech's picture
Megatech
*-*

Some people spend too much time trying to get a reputation(ego and bleh) , and then, forget to ''play'' the game...

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 15:50
#87
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Aero-Shark
After coming back from a 6

After coming back from a 6 month Hiatus I've seen some extreme differences in the community, much like the OP mentioned. It's pretty sad since it's just so... Well, uncomfortable now? I'm just glad I still have my guild, I rarely go into Haven anymore 'cus I can't tolerate some of the behaviour people exhibit. I just hang in my guildhall unless I need to turn in tokens.

Feel free to add me if you so wish. My guildmates and I are really fun and friendly people, and I'd be happy to do some runs with you if you're interested. If not then either way, I hope things work out for you, and for anyone else having to deal with the brunt of the bad apples like that person you mentioned.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 15:55
#88
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Heavy-Dragon
Could just be the state of the generation.

Or, perhaps, it could be due to the fact that Spiral knights is a popular game now, since its addition to Steam. I haven't been kicked yet, but I do sense a general elitist attitude from people who frankly shouldn't have one, now and again. When a game becomes popular, it draws all kinds of people in addition to the people who searched it out when it was less pronounced. Usually, the people it draws in this manner tend to be... less than pleasant, in my opinion.

To be realistic though, you can't have a game that is even partially devoid of characters like that. People nowadays lack patience, respect, and general politeness. You can, however, choose not to associate with those people.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 20:34
#89
Oatmonster's picture
Oatmonster
Lick Number 58425

Get ready for even more disappointment, SK is now on Newgrounds.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 20:38
#90
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Psychodestroyer

Oh Vog, we're screwed.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 22:16
#91
Feline-Grenadier's picture
Feline-Grenadier
Yeah, about that...

http://www.memestache.com/Brace+Yourselves//277928?live=1

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 23:13
#92
Aus-Lagger's picture
Aus-Lagger
you know what OP, your post

you know what OP, your post really ruffled my jimmies.

look here brah.

I prefer those honest illiterate and aggressive players to the passive-aggressive players that try to offend me with correct spelling, misplaced politeness and pseudo-intelligent statements. The latter is far more annoying as they parade around with their smug attittude, monocle and top hat. I daresay, you only got kicked because of your gob and self-perceived sense of skill. straightforward aggression>subtle aggression.

Also, random guld invites and trades only faze those with such attitudes.

The fact is. You are not your spiral knight, you're not how much crowns you have in the bank. You are not the armor you wear. You're not the weapons in your inventory. You are not your mewkat monster pocket. You are all singing, all dancing scrap metal of cradle.

Fri, 11/23/2012 - 00:05
#93
Uplus-Echd's picture
Uplus-Echd
@Above: Eh, what?

Err, I don't think replying to a question about handling Mecha-Knights is a good reason for being kicked.

What perplexes me more about invites is that there is no invite ignore option, even Toontown Online had that when I was playing it 8 years ago. And for some odd reason, you can still get Guild invites when you are already inside a Guild, so I find people sending guild invites to the guildfull a rather treacherous thing to do.

Please elaborate on your last paragraph, I don't understand your analogy, and I make weird analogies. EDIT2: Just realised it was about self-importance, but this thread isn't meant to be about that, it was meant to address uncooperative. It seems that our perception on that issue differ.

What I consider the uncooperative are people who exploit for self-gain; beggars, elitists, those people are afraid to work for their gain, and I find that to be sloth. I believe paraders are the elitists, but I am not that, I allow mistakes as long as the mistakers learn from it.

EDIT: I don't understand your perception of honesty, because honestly, I believe the OP is talking about the dishonest.

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 23:35
#94
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Forum-Brady
You think that people who

You think that people who spell correctly are trying to conceal their disapproval? Check OPs thread; I see no passive-aggression there. People that can spell correctly can be just as mean or insulting as anyone else...we just use vowels to do it BOOM!

>.>

<.<

>.>

Thu, 11/22/2012 - 23:56
#95
Psychodestroyer's picture
Psychodestroyer

"Also, random guld invites and trades only faze those with such attitudes."

Um, no? People who receive those on a regular basis due to hanging exactly where everyone else does or people that absolutely hate being contacted for no legitimate reason other than than to send a non-though out request for either online friendship or membership to a club you have neither heard about nor ever have seen the messenger sending you the invite could also hate such advances.

"I daresay, you only got kicked because of your gob and self-perceived sense of skill"

I'm confused, I don't see how that's relevant at all in a mission lobby while there's no action whatsoever to even appear 'leet' at.

"The fact is. You are not your spiral knight, you're not how much crowns you have in the bank. You are not the armor you wear. You're not the weapons in your inventory. You are not your mewkat monster pocket. You are all singing, all dancing scrap metal of cradle."

No, but we are all people, behind that digital interface, and some of us don't appreciate the ethics of certain people online any more than we would outside the internet, myself included.

So being kicked for pointing out a breach in those ethics, even when not directed at yourself, is obviously something to get annoyed at.

"passive-aggressive players that try to offend me with correct spelling, misplaced politeness and pseudo-intelligent statements."

Pseudo-intelligence and misplaced politeness I get, otherwise I'm confused.

Fri, 11/23/2012 - 00:10
#96
Softhead's picture
Softhead
Older and youngers can also act opposite maturites.

Pfff.

I was 12 when I joined, and well mannered. And Was bought up well, and disaplined.

And people who get disiplined can act imature.

I really hate those stereotypes.

Fri, 11/23/2012 - 10:52
#97
Laraso's picture
Laraso
@Stevejonesone

Let me get a few things straight. According to your post:
>Everyone who spells correctly is a passive-aggressive elitist?
>The aggressive elitists who don't spell correctly are cool?
>I got kicked because I'm a monocle-wearing smug elitist?
>I have a mewkat monster pocket!?!? Why didn't anyone tell me about this!

You obviously know very little about me. I do hope you weren't serious, but just trolling, because I find it extremely hard to take your post seriously. It's full of sweeping generalized statements that accuses all of the wrong people for doing things they didn't do.

Also, my armor, gear, and crowns are terrabad. I never have more than 10,000 crowns to my name, I use Ironmight and I smack things with my Sudaruska. If being a hipster is all it takes to be the kind of person you described in your post, perhaps you should think about changing how you judge other players.

Fri, 11/23/2012 - 10:41
#98
Laraso's picture
Laraso
Doubleposterific

Look at my mad double-posting skills. I'm so amazing!

I think I'll put on that monocle and top-hat I don't have now and go take my mewkat that I don't own out for a walk.

Fri, 11/23/2012 - 15:10
#99
Tanonev
On chat styles

I think a lot of dislike for "correct spelling" -- which is probably incorrectly singled out in this case; more likely, the telltale signs are capitalization, usage of punctuation, and usage of sentence structures that require more punctuation -- stems from the fact that some people chat like they speak, while others chat like they write, and when the two styles collide, misunderstandings abound. Many of us fail to realize that we speak and write in entirely different ways. Try reading something aloud that you wrote, or try writing down a recording of something you said; you may be surprised to discover that correct and elegant prose, when read aloud, sounds stiff and convoluted, while writing down lively speech results in run-on sentences, incorrect usage, and a fairly bland sentence structure. Chat is an odd beast in that it's technically a written medium, but it conveys information in close to real time, much like speech. As a result, people approach it from both directions. Personally, I chat like I speak, which means I don't organize my chat lines into fully formed, balanced sentences. This probably stems from my typing speed; I can type nearly as fast as I can speak, and with a few shortcuts (chatspeak) I can align those two speeds, making it a very natural action for myself. I must admit that for the longest time I harbored an irrational dislike of the written chat style, and to some extent it still seems unnatural to me laid out on the screen.

Fri, 11/23/2012 - 15:57
#100
Luguiru's picture
Luguiru

When I was first getting into bombing I liked to go in random parties to play the game for fun while most were out grinding boss floors and what not. About half the time at least one person in the party became interested in bombs, but only to the point of asking if they were easier to use than it looked. The rest of the time everyone was quiet. There were very rare occasions where I ended up turning someone into a bomber, but very very few of the people I knew back then are still around today, but at least we could learn from each other.

I remember showing another bomber how to use certain kinds of bombs in other ways than spamming mindlessly, and before that I showed sword users there are other ways to fight than slashing mindlessly. They wanted to learn and were rewarded for their participation. Now if I jump in a party all I see are clones, Cobalts (which I respect significantly more than clones), and the occasional sword-gun hybrid who most likely has a Pulsar on them. By clones I mean Wolver set with some kind of Brandish spamming the charge attack and only using the basic attacks to break minerals if they even take the time to do so; usually they just run past to wait on the party button while the rest of the party is breaking the rest of the minerals in case a bigger chunk appears. What happened to the days when whoever got to a mineral area first broke all of them so the rest of the team can catch up and move ahead sooner? What would the first guy lose by doing that? Oh no, the rest of my team is fighting some stuff I ran past earlier and this mineral place is right here. I should just break the closest one and go wait on the party button and complain about how slow they are. That helps a lot. Anyway, clones or Cobalts; with clones they just want to spam range-ish attacks like Brandish charges, Pulsars, or whatever is mindless enough to make their eyeballs amused. With Cobalts they tend to be legitimate new players who either want to learn more about the game or just want to get money to become a clone. With the former I usually try to switch up my loadout to show them how to use their weapons in a few different ways or show them other weapon they might want in the future; this usually happens with bombs. At the end of the run I usually try to get them to check the guides over there so they can learn more about whatever they want without having to take away from their current play time, but only around one of three even say they would do so. Most of the time I get something along the lines of "reading bad, smashy smashy good" and they usually either quit within a couple weeks or become a clone because other clones tell them to.

I have one question for those people. Are you playing this game for entertainment or to feed your ego?

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